Articles
What's The Best Way of Expressing Your Anger? - 01/30/2010
Anger can drive people apart or it can be a catalyst for opening up a channel of communication that brings intimacy and clarity. Find out the consequences of expressing your anger out loud versus giving the silent treatment, and create a better of communication that reduces stress and allows for stable, secure and satisfying relationships.
How Likely Are You to Sabotage Your Relationship? - 08/18/2009
Relationship Self-sabotage. It's hard to chose between feeling in control and having a relationship that may bite you. Even if you are desperate to have a good secure relationship, you may unconsciously sabotage it to give in to the part of you that needs to feel powerful. Learn how to stop the war inside you and have a relationship that is both safe and doesn't sap your power.
Turning Relationship Insecurity into Connective Security. - 07/20/2009
Anger management for relationship insecurity. If you feel invisible and dropped when your partner is busy or talking to other people, it's like you just got disconnected. It can make you angry and resentful which creates a rift in the relationship. Get tips on reconnecting with your partner no matter whether you are together or doing different things in different places.
Why Am I Good At My Job But Fail At Relationships? - 07/15/2009
Relationship problems. Intimacy problems. Top of the ladder in your job but can't make it in your personal life? You probably developed your intellect at the expense of your emotional skills. Trying to learn about your emotions through books and classes doesn't work. Self- reliance only takes you so far. Learn what your emotional brain needs and how to get it.
Angry That Your Partner Isn't Who You Signed Up For? - 04/30/2009
Anger management for couples who are tired of doing all the work in the relationship. Ease frustration and resentment by communicating your needs in ways that will get you what you want. Find the tenderness in your partner, reduce the anger and disappointment and connect in satisfying ways
Go To Therapy Or Else We Are Through! - 11/28/2008
Anger Management for effective couples communication. Suspicion drives couples apart. "I've told you a million times, I'm not interested in Al. He's just my boss. You’re screwed up. I can’t take this anymore. You’re so suspicious it’s becoming impossible to have a normal relationship with you. You need help.” accused Josie. “Go to therapy, or else we are through!"
Are You Binging and Purging Your Lover Into Unavailability? Four Ways To Find and Keep Available Partners. - 07/20/2008
Fear of Intimacy. Relationship Advice. Picking the right partner. Trust in relationships. Roxanne tortured herself with guilt for having let him slip away. She was consumed with thoughts of longing for his touch, his smile, and his adoration. He felt lost to her. Nothing satisfied that dark, deep, hollow vortex inside. The hunger was old, familiar, horrible but safe. Now that Josh was unavailable she could mourn and grieve. So much more comfortable than being imprisoned by his possessive cage of love.