Do you find
that little things in life get under your skin and annoy you, such as
when
someone keeps you waiting, or forgets an appointment with you?
If you resent
having to do all the work in your relationships then you are probably
trapped
in a vicious cycle of anger and disappointment.
You may
try to numb your anger by eating, using
alcohol, drugs, pills or exercise. These short term solutions soon wear
off and
you are left feeling defeated.
Anger doesn’t
have to get in your way, or hold you back. In fact anger is a clue that
you may
be allowing yourself to be taken advantage of.
I can show you
how to
1.
Be assertive without losing friends or
upsetting loved ones.
2. Communicate
your anger in a way that will get heard rather than ignored.
3. Combine your
intelligence and motivating anger to make sound judgments.
4. Harness the potent energy of
anger and
turn it into motivation for achieving your goals.
5. Take
the heat out of your hot buttons and use
it as fuel to create respectful connections.
6. Break the connection
between a maddening experience
and
your sabotaging reaction.
7. React with
greater control and clarity when your buttons get pushed.
8. Identify and
deal with the issues that trigger your irritations and frustrations.
9. Recover
faster from the paralyzing grip of
anger and move towards the purpose of your life.
10. Use
your anger to protect rather than sabotage yourself.
If you want to be in the driver's
seat instead of just going along for the bumpy ride
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On the other hand, If you prefer to
remain hijacked by the daily aggravations and frustrations of life,
here are
some of the consequences you can expect.
Unchanneled
anger and frustration can affect the quality of your relationships,
your
physical and emotional health, and your ability to function effectively
and
productively.
Your
Performance
1. Intense
anger blocks access to your intelligence.
2. The quality
of your judgment is compromised.
3. Your
intended messages is drowned out by indignation and
outrage.
4. People tune
out when you come at them from a place of
anger.
5. You end up
frustrated, lonely and isolated.
Physical and
Emotional Health
6. Living with
built up resentment causes stress overload.
7. Excess
stress leads to weight gain, impotency, disrupted
sleep and chronic fatigue.
8. Exhaustion
slows you down and weakens your immune
system. Digestive
tract diseases including bloating,
irritable bowel syndrome and ulcerative colitis are
some of the signs
of a weakened immune response.
9. You may
develop skin breakouts and hair loss.
10. You may
also get frequent tension headaches, migraines,
sciatica or back, neck and
shoulder pain.

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